Thursday, October 30, 2008
-成熟度-
一個人怎麽樣才算是真真成熟呢?
是不是一個人的年紀慢慢的變得年長才算是成熟呢?
還是一個人的樣子看起來比實際的年齡大才是成熟呢?
或者是一個人比一般人想得多、處處為他人着想,才算得上是成熟呢?
有些人雖然年紀一年比一年大,可是待人處事上卻像小孩般那樣,不懂得分析現況、也不懂得採取一些實際的行動來解決面臨的困難。擧個例子,某某人的女兒一天到晚只顧著吃喝玩樂,或者到處去血拼。她的父親卻到處在外向人借錢。一個年齡超過二十的女生,難道不會分析自己家裏的經濟情況而到外工作賺點錢幫忙家裏嗎?
成熟度可能真的需要一些些社會的磨煉才能慢慢地培養出來吧!!人畢竟需要一些挫折,嘗試過跌倒的滋味,才會變得比以前成熟吧~~
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
-独立•旅途-
-小小测验-
Your view on yourself:You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education: Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self:You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
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